What's New?  LOVE BITES: For Desperate Women and the Clueless Men Who Love Them

I'm delighted to announce the launch of my latest tool for couples: LOVE BITES--for Desperate Women and the Clueless Men who love them. Like The OuchKit, Love Bites started out as a homework tool for couples in my therapy practice.

I created it because I kept noticing that men and women always complain about two things: Women complain that men are clueless, and men complain that women are never satisfied. The problem is that women think they're being specific when they're really not, and men think they understand women when they really don't. Love Bites solves both these problems by helping men and women ask for--and get what they really want from each other. I promise, if you use it consistently for 6 weeks, it will transform your relationship.

I'm delighted to hear that Love Bites is already being used by marriage educators to help young couples learn how to ask for what they want, and have fun meeting each other's needs.  It's also being used to jumpstart relationships that have have gone flat over time, and restore a sense of goodwill to relationships that have become painful or have developed sharp edges. The Follow-Up Conversation that comes with the kit structures a healing dialogue that automatically unearths unspoken hurts, wants, and needs, and offers hopeful solutions through acts of kindness, service, and affection.

If you know of somone who might be interested in using or distributing either of my products, or you'd like to carry them in your store or catalog, please let me know.  I am mostly interested in getting them out into the world where they can do the most good.  So if you know of a marriage enrichment program, research project, or treatment setting where these tools might fit, please let me know.  I'd be thrilled to offer a quantity discount to anyone who wants to use them in their work.  To reach me, just click here Contact form.  I'll get back to you as soon as possible.